Aj mai apni zindagi ki kuch aisi baat bataungi joh sunn kar ho sake kii ap log ye galtiya na kare or is baat ko ache se samjhee.Sab se pheli galti kisi ke upar bhut jaldi biswas kar lenaa ye joh baat hai naaa isse hamesha sabdhan rahee or toh or dusre ko v sabdhan karee kisi ke upar bhut jaldi biswas kar lene se kabhi kabhi zindagi v kharab ho sakti haii ek thoda sa example batati huu jaise kii mere sath he ye ek bar hua thaaa .....mai tab lagbak 8 saal ki hongi or 2 class mai padai karti thiii or mera hai na Ghar se school bhut duri mai haii tab mai bilkul sure apna ghar nhi phechanti thiiii bhut bholibhali si thiiii or ek din thaa humlog ke school peh sports toh maine uspeh hissa liya thaa or usdin naa papa ji mujhe lene aye toh thee par chutti late se hone ki wajah se unko jana padaa toh ek aunty ji ne kaha mai tumko Ghar chor dungii or woh aunty na mere ghar ke pass mai he rheti thii acha jan phechan thaaa humlog kaa lekin kya hua naawoh mujhe bhul gayiii or mai wahi peh rheee gayii mere pass karne ke liye v kuch nhi thaa or samjh v utna nhi tha us time peh tohh lekin usii time peh ek bhut achi aunty milii jinko na mai janti tii nahi or kuch lekin woh aunty ne mujhe safely ghar peh poho chaya thaaaa jisse ke mai ghar gayiii agar woh achi aunty mujhe nhi milti toh kya hota mujhe kuch v nhi pata isse mujhee chote peh Sikh mili thiii ki kisi ke upar jaldi bharosa nhi karna haiiii or ek important baat agar apke ghar peh v koi chota baccha hai toh usko apni jimadari peh rakhee kisi or ke bilkul v nhiii ye sab see bhut sabdhan rahee ye bhut bhut bhut jaruri hai...
Ab mai apko or ek dusri galti batati hu joh zindagi peh har ek insan karte rhete hainn syd ap v abhi kar rahe hoo or agar nhi kar rahe toh abhi se bilkul satark raheeee woh galti maine v kiyaa haii or woh galti ye hai kee kisi ko itna ucha darja denaa ki woh apko pao ki dhul samjhlee toh mai ye baat peh kahungii ki hamesha sar utha kar jiyeee zindagi bhut thodi haii isko kisi or ke liye nhi apne liye jiyeee humlog ke life peh kabhi aisa ho jata hai ki humlog bs ek sadharan insan koi sab kuch samjhne lag jate hainor agar woh samjh jaye toh apko ignore ya avoid karna suru karta hai q ki usse pata hai ap ho uske liye hamesha jhuk jhuk jayenge usse baate karne chaiye woh kare ya na kare lekin ap jarur karenge isse kya hota hai woh khud ko bhut bada samjhne lag jata haii or apko hamesha nich kar ke soch taaa mai ye nhi khee rahi ki ye sab case mai apko dikhta ho lekin ajkal ke zyada time peh yahi dikh raha haii toh ap ye sab se safe rhene ke liyee kisi se zyada laghav na badayeee nhi toh ap tadap te rhee jayenge or unko kuch v fark joh hai nhi padegaa mai khee rahi thi na maine v ye galti Kiya hai maine v ek ladke peh bhut trust Kiya thaaa or uske liye bhut dur tak ka safar soch lakha thaa lekin last hua kuch nhiii woh kuch sadharan baat se gussa ho gaya or rista tod diyaa maine usko bhut manane ki kosish ki lekin woh nhi mana isliye maine khud ko badalne ke liye sochaa or abhi mai woh galti ke liye tauba karti huuu suddenly agar socha hai tohh ye galti apki zindagi peh thoda kharab time toh lata hai lekin kuch time ap agar khud ko ache se samjhayee toh ap firse phele ki tarhaa khush thee sakte haii apko kya karna hai is time peh apko joh joh karna acha lagta hai woh karee jaise mere ko toh drawing karna acha lagta thaaa nawa nawa tarike ka khana banana acha lagta thaaaa dance karna acha lagta thaaa gana sunna or gane mai v bhut maza ata thaaa or toh maine is time bhut sare dost v banaye theee jinho new mujhe achee rhene mai bhut bhut zyad6help kiya haii woh log ne galat time peh mera sath diya haii toh mai Aplog ko v yahi suggest karungi ki ye sab time dost banaye or apko lage ki haa woh mere bare sunkar mera mazak nhi balke mera help karegaa toh ap usko share kar sakte hoo ap jitna akele rhene ka kosish karye ga na utna zyada over thinking apko joh hai hota rahega or galat galat chiz karne ka joh icha ya Mann bola jata hai woh hota rahe hai isliye joh haii istime peh thoda khush rhene ki kosish karte rahee ha mujhe pata hai khush rhena istime peh bhut muskin hota hai lekin ap jitna khush rhene ki kosish kariye ga utna apka apka zindagi acha or khusi khusi bitegaa toh jaldi se kisi ke bare mai kabhi v fesla na lee phele uske bare mai sochiye samjhte woh kya karta hai kaha rhetaa sab se kaise baat karta hai apse kaise baat kar raha hai ye sab baat peh zyada se zyada dhyan se or koi v fesla lene ki waqt peh soch samjh kar fesla lee .
Ye kahani maine apni zindagi ki galti lekar likha hai toh Aplog ko mai apna zindagi ka tisra galti share karti huu or umid Karti ye galti ap na karleee koi dusra person ke upar indipendent rheneee woh dusra person papa ji v ho sakta hai bhaiya ji v ho sakta hai or husband ji v ho sakta hai ya mammy ji v ho sakti haii ya fir Ghar ka koi v guardian ho sakta hai jiske upar ap independent ho mai apko kuch skills share kar sakti jisse ke app kuch paise kama paoo or apne liye kuch le v paoo Ismai sabse phela (1st)ata hai script writing ya fir novel writing ye joh kaam hota hai naaa Ismai ap bss likh kar kuch paise kama sakte hai ha par ap agar is peh realistic kuch ya fir real life ko lekar kuch likh rahe hain yoh ye zyada acha acha hoga or padne wale v bhut pasand karenge . Ab hai dusra (2nd) home teaching ya online v teaching kar sakte hain home teaching apko ap paros ke bacche se start kar sakte haii isse agar appass peh baat uthee toh ap zyada student ya bacche ko tusion de sakte hai jisse ki aram se hath kharcha nikal sakte hain ha pata hai chote baccho ko samalna thoda muskil hota haii par isse ap kharcha nikal sakte hain or ab baat rahi online teaching ki toh woh apkoo easily karne ka process batari huu apko karna ye haii ki phele ek YouTube account bana ligiyee fir ek santi sa jagah peh rahiyee jaha peh zayada awaj na ho raha ho isse kya hoga na ap ache se concentrate kar sakte hai dusro bacche ko ache se samjha sakte haii khud aram se samjh sakte hai kuch soch sakte haii toh apko karna ye hai ki camera aisa jagah peh lagana hai sab ache se dikhee or ache se samjh v ayee or uspeh achee padhai ko samjhana hai jaise samne wala joh apke video dekh raha haii usko aram se samjh v aye agar ap ache se usprh focus kar rahe hain toh apka video viral v hoga or usko higher v kiya jaye ga or isse v ap acha khasa paise kama sakte hain . Ab mai tisra (3rd) skills batari huu jisse ap aram se kar v sakte hai or aram se paisa v ajaye ga lekin haa Ismai thoda mehanat zarur lage gaa or woh hai mehendi lagana dekhiye agar apko mehendi lagana nhi ata hai toh use sikhiyee ye skill ap ghar bethe aram se or free mai v Sikh sakte haii or isko kaam mai laga kar bhut Paisa v kama sakte hai bhut Paisa matlab ke agar ap ek bride ki 2 hath or 2 per peh mehendi lagayenge toh aram se 5k - 10k kama sakte hain . Mehendi lagana agar nhi ata toh social media peh apko iskaa bhut bhut video mil jayenge jaise YouTube peh pura kaise lagaya jata hai kaha se suru kiya jata hai kaha se khatam hota hai woh sab samjhate hai Google ka help le sakte hai or abhi toh chat gpt hai au haii har chiz se ap sikh sakte hai or agar ap mehendi ki cone bana ke sale karenge uspeh v apki bhut faida ho jaye ga lekin hai mehendi ka colour acha ana chaiye tab usko insan zyada kharidenge or ap use apne hisab se 20 ya fir 25 ya fir 30 ka v rate laga ge bhej sakte hain .
Aj ke liye ye kuch kaam ki bate baki bateee mai fir dusra din share karungii apko agar meri batee help full lage toh isee apne usee peh jarur lagayeee thank you.