parents ke words-
ghar par ladki ki ek choti si Galti ke karna use puri life sunaya Jata hai or sare family member us se achi trh baat tak nhi krte wo ladki man hi man me sochte rhti hai ki agar wahi galti ghar ke bete kar
le toh us ki galti har koi maaf kar deta hai kyu ki wo ek ladka hai agar koi ladki marna Chati hai but gahr ke bare me soch kar piche ho Jati hai ki ghar wale khege ki kisi or ke piche Mar gyi hai ghar me koi bi baat hoti hai beto ko sath me bithya Jata hai or beti ko ghar ke kaam me lgaya jata hai Esa kyu ?
Ghar ki ladki kuch kh de toh bolege ki kese baat kar rhi hai or ghar ka beta bole toh gussa aa gya koi tension hogi ye kiya baat hoti hai ?
Comparison-
Comparison Esa word hai jo phle bi chlta tha or aaj bi ese hi chlta aa rha hai vese toh kafi kam ho gya hai
Comparison krna girls or boys me but kuch ese ghar bi hai jo aaj ladka or ladki me Comparison krte hai me apne real experience se kr rhi hu aaj me 22 saal ki hu mere saath har bar har ek chiz me Comparison kiya jata hai wo koi bi cheez kyu na ho pocket money deni Ho ya kuch new dilana ho mujhe toh yahi lgta hai ki meri ghar par koi value nhi kyuki me ek ladki hu mujhe es comparison ke chlte lgta hai ki me ladki kyu bni ?
self-confidence ka tootna-
Mere Ghar walo ne toh mere Pura self confidence tod ke rakha huaa hai me jab bi kisi se baat krti hu toh me kar nhi Pati mera Puri body vibrent hoti hu kyu ki ghar walo ne kbhi kisi se baat nhi krni di kyuki mujhe ghar walo ne kabhi aajadi nhi di ki me kisi se khul kar bat kar sakhu kyu ki me ek ladki hu ?
School me frnds se Jada baat mat kiya kar ache nhi hote us ke sath mat rha kar wo sahi nhi hai khud mujh se baat nhi krege khul kar na hi kisi se krne dege Esa kyu karte hai pta nhi ?