There's a lot of truth in what was just said.
Before parents criticize their children, they should first let them try.
Through direct experience, they gain a clear and objective understanding of themselves, knowing their own limitations.
To deny them the chance to try, and immediately negate based on personal life experience with an attitude of "I'm doing this for your own good," keeps children trapped in a comfort zone.
This is unfair to children.
The result can be no more than three outcomes.
One: The obedient child becomes accustomed to conforming, leading to a predictable future.
Two: The rebellious child will resist, straining family relationships, ultimately returning home with nothing to show but bruises.
Three: The stubbornly rebellious child, who likes to forge a path to ruin, may run away never to return.
In Jiang Xingxing's case, it hasn't reached this point yet.
But if this high-pressure opposition continues, the future is indeed uncertain.
