"You don't seem like a twenty-year-old girl. Look at you, thinking too much. If it were me, with such an outstanding man who loves me so wholeheartedly, I'd love first and worry about everything else, who cares about all those relatives?
One cannot be young in vain.
But look at you, like an old woman in her fifties, overthinking everything. If everyone thought like you, no one would get married or start a relationship because everyone has a few difficult relatives and no one can guarantee smooth sailing. If everyone worried about the consequences and didn't move forward, then no one would need a family.
You need to see the good side, the sunny side. Who says love necessarily leads to marriage? If the two of you like each other and have a strong attraction, that's reason enough to dive in. If you keep worrying about this and that, is there even such a thing as love left in this world?"
