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Chapter 4 - Abuse by Tutors and Religious Teachers

Teachers and religious instructors hold a place of high respect in society. They are trusted with a child's education, moral development, and spiritual guidance. But when this trust is violated through abuse, the harm is not only personal—it strikes at the heart of community faith and values.

The Reality of Institutional Abuse

In South Asia and beyond, disturbing cases of abuse by teachers and religious leaders have come to light. These incidents occur in environments such as:

Schools

Tuition centers

Religious institutions (e.g., madrasas, temples, churches)

The abuse may be physical, emotional, or sexual. What makes it particularly devastating is that it often happens under the guise of discipline, religious correction, or authority, making it hard for children to recognize or report the wrongdoing.

Power Imbalance and Manipulation

Children are taught to respect and obey their teachers and religious guides. This power imbalance gives abusers the ability to silence victims through:

Fear of punishment

Religious guilt or manipulation

Threats of social shame or expulsion

Use of spiritual teachings to justify control

In some cases, abusers convince children that speaking out is a sin or dishonor. This keeps victims trapped in silence and confusion.

Lack of Oversight and Accountability

Abuse continues in educational and religious settings largely due to:

Unregistered or unregulated institutions

Lack of formal child protection policies

Fear of community backlash

Belief that religious figures are beyond reproach

Absence of safe, anonymous reporting systems

Often, institutions prioritize their reputation over child safety. Complaints are ignored, and in some cases, abusers are quietly transferred instead of being held accountable.

Reports by organizations such as Human Rights Watch and Sahil show that many survivors never receive justice due to social fear, institutional pressure, or weak legal follow-through.

Impact on the Child

When a teacher or religious tutor becomes an abuser, the child experiences more than trauma. They may face:

Loss of trust in education or religion

Severe confusion about right and wrong

Fear of adults or authority figures

Emotional shutdown or depression

Long-term mental health struggles

This betrayal can also create spiritual conflict, as the child may associate religious teachings with harm or fear.

> As noted by the National Commission on the Rights of Child (NCRC),

"Abuse by a religious tutor is not only a personal crime—it is a violation of sacred duty."

Conclusion

Teachers and religious instructors must be held to the highest standards of conduct and care. Abuse in these spaces is a betrayal of trust and must never be excused or hidden behind tradition or faith.

To protect children, communities must demand:

Mandatory child protection training for all educators and tutors

Certification and regulation of religious institutions

Anonymous, child-friendly reporting systems

Zero-tolerance policies for abuse in all learning environments

Until every classroom, madrasa, and temple is truly safe, education cannot fulfill its purpose. Protection must come before prestige.

> "No title or robe should ever be a shield for cruelty."

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