Marriage has always been a major event in life since ancient times, causing distress from monarchs to common people over whom they should marry.
Especially for a monarch, marriage is not only about their own interests but also concerns the interests of the entire country and nation.
In the face of national and political interests, the happiness of the monarch becomes secondary.
In the Western world, marriages between nobles and nobles, and between royal families, have become unshakeable tacit rules. The stories of princes and Cinderella, and princesses and tailors, can only appear in fairy tales.
Of course, as long as you can use the army to completely crush the orthodox order, like Jerome Bonaparte's uncle, Emperor Napoleon, and have the army lay siege to their capital, they will obediently betroth the princess to you as well.
