As for the character of this boy Yan Hao, she knows it very well. He values face a lot and is willing to share his embarrassing stories with you, which doesn't mean he doesn't hold grudges. If it's someone close, it's fine; he won't cause trouble for you, but if the relationship isn't so good, the day he takes a dislike to you, he will hold it against you.
The old lady was one of her trusted people, and even if she doted on Yan Hao, she didn't want to lose such a person for his sake.
"How could I not be mad? Later, I simply couldn't be bothered to deal with that old man. They came to the Capital City, and I didn't even go to see him. Even if it were my mom, I wouldn't allow her to go. Why the hell should I go? They don't regard me as family, so why should I regard them as family?"
