Chen Feng really didn't want to spend too much energy on his uncle's mess, so after thinking for a while, he said: "Since they've set conditions and uncle likes this woman, we can still negotiate with them. We can lend the money for the house to her and uncle, have them both write an IOU to us, and they must repay us later. The property title, of course, should have both their names, not just one.
The bride price of 180,000 is also fine, but when they get married, they must have a dowry of equivalent value, like a car. This is also a custom from our side. There's no such thing as not returning the 180,000 bride price. Mom, you should go discuss this carefully with her mom along with Aunt. If they agree, we can try to make it work. After all, uncle likes this woman."
