"Emotional Handbook" [108 Ways to Enhance Emotion] No. 52, was actually used by Qiu Tu before.
At that time, Qiu Tu used this tactic on Princess Xi: Princess Xi invited Qiu Tu several times, but Qiu Tu just wouldn't accept the invitation.
It wasn't until Princess Xi was disappointed in Qiu Tu, with no hope left, that Qiu Tu suddenly accepted the invitation.
It was by relying on this emotional tug-of-war that Qiu Tu successfully broke through Princess Xi's defenses.
And today, the "disappointment and surprise" used against Candle Dance is a further, more profound application.
The premise is still the same as the 52nd move: you must ensure you can "control" this woman, ensuring you won't fail.
Once you ensure this premise, you can proactively suppress the woman, make her disappointed, even to the point of despair, and then give her a big reversal, surprising her!
