Nangong Yi said, "Do you mean to immediately marry Zhu'er to him, right?"
Cai Wei said, "Look at you, acting all sour, as if I'm an evil stepmother trying to harm your daughter. Zhu'er is not only my own flesh and blood, painstakingly carried for ten months and born with great effort—how could I bear to see her get married? But what if we make her stay in mourning for Mingzhu and she's unhappy with us? I think it's best to listen to Zhu'er in this matter. If she wants to marry, we'll secretly delay the mourning and handle their wedding first before holding the memorial service for the Retired Emperor; if she wants to stay in mourning for the Imperial Father, we'll respect her wishes and keep her at home for three years to fulfill your love for your daughter! Do you find this arrangement satisfactory?"
